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Discovering Innate Creativity

March 24, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

How creative are you? Before answering this question in the traditional sense of art, music or writing ability, consider your courage, tenacity and flexibility.  Perhaps I should explain a little further.

 As a secondary school English teacher, I believe nurturing creativity is extremely important. Creativity supports innovation and innovation strengthens problem solving. Students who are willing to adopt a creative approach to learning, learn more effectively.

Why?

Because they possess the courage, tenacity and flexibility to actively question ideas and emotions. This is a proactive approach to learning that requires students to process information. They actually sort, manage, evaluate and file ideas, rather than simply storing them.

Although some people view creativity as a specialist gift, others (myself included) believe creativity is latent force that simply requires awakening. In other words everyone has the ability to be creative – some just need a little more help to access it. Some students may lack the courage to act upon their creative impulses, however this doesn’t mean they lack creativity. Generally it means they don’t feel comfortable in a particular situation or they have become so comfortable, they resist the urge to change. Therefore, we can help students develop their creativity by offering an environment which is simultaneously supporting and challenging.

I like to use an abseiling analogy when describing this to my classes. Even though abseiling is a dangerous activity, the risks can be managed using a secure harness, strong ropes, a buddy to belay and an active awareness of the situation. If we bring this analogy into the classroom, creativity is developed when teachers become the support harness, fellow students act as belay (i.e. through collaborative learning opportunities) and individuals accept responsibility for their actions. Within this supportive environment anyone can discover their creative centre. Just as the exhilaration of overcoming  ‘edge of the cliff’ fear is awe inspiring, so to is the realisation that creatively solving a problem may simply require looking at a situation from a different perspective.

However, as the abseiling analogy shows, recognising innate creativity requires courage. Students need to feel secure within their ‘harness’, confident of their ‘belay’ and comfortable in their environment. More specifically, students need to feel understood by their teacher, trust in their classmates and skilled enough to meet upcoming challenges. The classroom environment should be a place where experimentation is welcomed and failure recognised as a natural consequence of discovery. Students should be encouraged to believe, even though they may ‘slip’ sometimes (when they fumble or the rope slides to fast), it is all a part of the adventure and, it is an opportunity to learn.  In other words, when mistakes are made students need to feel supported, safe and that they can still reach their destination.

I believe, a student who has accessed their innate creativity has the courage, tenacity and flexibility to recognise  failure is not an end point, rather it is a directional clue or a hint to adopt a different approach.

So, how creative are you?

Next week I’ll offer a few clues for boosting your creativity.

 

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

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Filed Under: Blog, Learning Tagged With: creativity and learning, develop creativity, discovering innate creativity

Be the Author of Your Story

March 10, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

The day has finally arrived. Is This MyStory began as a dream, morphed into a tangible idea, was born in print and has now grown into a series of interactive seminars and workshops. This means you can join a course that will guide you towards becoming the author of your own life rather than being a character in someone else’s.

 

Put simply, Is This MyStory workshops help  frustrated teenagers find their voice. We help teenagers feel good about who they are.  The difference between Is This MyStory and other personal development or study skills courses is that we help teenagers understand the link between learning and self-esteem. Is This MyStory helps young adults develop self confidence and improve their literacy skills.

 

How often have you read a book, attended a workshop or listened to a speaker who inspired change, only to discover within a few months, you had returned to old habits? You may have attended a study skills class or revision lecture which helped initially, but then soon found your motivation waning.

Did you ask why?

The thing is, learning is a progressive experience. One step leads to another and, just as we walk in order to reach a particular destination, learning needs to lead somewhere. The key is recognising where. Many study skills, motivational or relaxation courses offer insight into new ways of thinking but they are ‘one off’ or short lived. Even though the learning is empowering at the time, it is not embedded into long term thought processes or behavioural patterns.

That is why Is This MyStory courses are embedded into everyday life. Is This MyStory workshops and seminars show students how to recognise the learning within life’s stories. We link critical, emotional and creative literacy skills to a generative project that encourages students to develop a critical, reflective and imaginative approach to life.  Students complete a learning rite. This is a literal and figurative journey, down a rabbit hole, along a learning path, toward a World of Expression. It is here students recognise their own voice and learn how to communicate effectively (with themselves and with others). This generates confidence.

The inspiring feature of an Is This MyStory project is that it is real and ongoing. Once students have gathered the tools of critical, emotional and creative literacy, they have in their possession the imaginative attributes required to manage their future. They have the capacity to work independently and collaboratively. They are able to develop their own MyStory – a focused awareness that nestles comfortably within a larger social and emotional network. In choosing to ‘write my own story’ students choose to become lifelong learners who have the confidence, courage, creativity and compassion to take responsibility for themselves.

At the moment we offer interactive workshops and seminars throughout the Northern Beaches and North Shore. We will expand to other areas of Sydney as the year progresses. If your teenager is frustrated by a world that doesn’t seem to listen, if they are a sensitive, creative individual who feels as though they need to hide their feelings or, if they simply believe they can’t be themselves, perhaps they need a new story. A story they own. We can help teenagers develop the critical, emotional and creative literacy skills they need to write their own story – both literally and figuratively.

If you would like to know more please have a look at our Interactive Seminars & Workshop page. You may even like to contact Nicole to discuss your situation.

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

 

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Identity and the Future of e-Books

February 28, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

I used to struggle with identity. I wondered, am I a teacher who writes or a writer who teaches.  It may seem silly but in the interest of allocating time and describing myself, I thought I had to choose. Thankfully, I realised identity is a fluid notion. This realisation was liberating, it meant I didn’t have to conform to a label. In some instances I am a writer who teaches, in others I am a teacher who writes – and it has nothing to do with a classroom or computer. I am simultaneously a teacher and a writer existing within a multidimensional space. E-books exist within this same multidimensional frame.

Or at least they should.

Recently I took part in a discussion about the viability e-book publishing.  Some of the experienced publishers in the group cautioned those of us who were excited about immersive texts, to be wary. They reminded us that the tech world is full of forgotten ideas that appeared visionary then failed because they didn’t take into account market forces. These publishers were sceptical of interactive e-books and questioned if the market really wants them. However, it seemed to me these publishers were bound to fixed labels of what constitutes a ‘book’ and what defines a reading experience.

So, while I understand the gist of their warning, I am eager to explore the digital frontier. The key issue from my vantage point (gazing longingly onto sunlight plains, wild rapids and majestic mountains) will be identity. If we remain locked in a single, ‘what has been done before’ dimension, we risk following an ancient map to crumbling ruins. Perhaps then, as we define what the market wants, we need to consider e-book identity as a fluid form.  

Perhaps an analogy will help.

As a teacher, I have witnessed the restrictions of a static identity. Teenage students struggle with ‘who am I’ and ‘who are my friends’. They seek a label that helps them identity with one group or another, but then struggle when they find themselves falling into one category one day and another the next. These labels impact their thoughts and behaviours. Yet, when they are courageous enough to break free of labels, they develop the confidence to explore, innovate and create opportunities for themselves. They find their own place – a space of self-acceptance. Without labouring the point, swapping static labels for multidimensional identities, opens opportunities.  We can be confident in the face of a changing environment because we are not bound to follow. Rather, we can choose how we interact with thoughts, emotions and ideas. This is a liberating vista.

How does this relate to e-books?

As a writer I have felt the restrictions of a static identity. I want to create a text that encourages audiences to become simultaneously within, without and below the story. I hope to build an immersive, reflective and creative opportunity that allows the audience to actively participate in the gathering of ideas. I want them to manipulate, analyse and synthesise what they see, hear and feel. I am interested in adopting a pioneering approach to the sharing of ideas through words, images and sounds.  Yet when I explain the concept to adults they want clearer labels. They ask for examples. What if there are none?

We need the imagination of childhood.  

My research into the viability of immersive e-books has been conducted within the classroom. While at the so called chalkface (even though chalkboards disappeared years ago), I witnessed firsthand how today’s teenagers access ideas, information and knowledge -and it is different to the way we did when we were at school. From what I see in primary schools, this is about to shift even further. If you have ever seen a five year old with their parent’s smart phone or tablet, you will know what I mean. Even if novels retain a traditional place in a reading environment, the text book will follow chalk boards and slates into the nearest folk museum. Children see beyond markets, they take the tools we provide and create new uses.

Here is the Ah, Ha moment – the multidimensional (or transmedia) identity opportunity.

The e-text book market has the potential to ‘go where no book has gone before’. My guess is other non-fiction books will quickly follow. But, we have a problem. The e-book market is stuck within an identity maelstrom. Traditional publishers want to maintain market share. Numerous platforms jostle for supremacy and the writers of code have yet to collaborate effectively with the writers of words, image and sound.  True, we have interactive and immersive novels, we have interactive graphic novels, we have games with strong narrative elements, we have textbooks with hyper links and we have note taking facilities within e reader software. However, these pioneering initiatives are still wrenching current identities to fit within traditional book labels. It is time for a multidimensional attitude.

A book can be a book that is simultaneously a book and not a book – the label should not restrict the functionality.

The current e-volution in the publishing world needs to take into account the future. Not the future of technology, but future generations. This is a market that wants interactive e-alternatives. Adults need to listen to children and look at how they access ideas, stories, impressions, facts, thoughts and emotions.  And I use the word children deliberately, to put it bluntly, children are the markets of the future. I am talking about the secondary school and university students of the future, not the ones studying at university now. Again I remind you, look at what is happening in primary schools and imagine the content gathering and ideas manipulation expectations today’s children will have tomorrow. Rather than looking to the past (particularly in terms of uptake of e-texts) to see what has succeeded, we need to look at the world our children live in. We need active collaboration between the users of content, the creators of content and those who will build the systems. I look forward to the day teachers, writers, software and hardware developers join forces in a multidimensional space that does not seek to publish within a neatly labelled e-box.

 

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

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Filed Under: Blog, Reading, Technology Tagged With: e-book identity, e-book identity as a fluid form, future of e-books, future of immersive texts, identity and the future of e-books, labels impact thoughts and behaviours, what consitutes a book

“You’re On Twitter Right?”

February 20, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

Yes!  I offer a self satisfied smile and keep the internal shudder to myself. Yes, I am on Twitter. I even send the occasional tweet (at least once a week), check my twitter feed (at least once a week) and retweet (on the odd occasion). But I still don’t think I’m doing right.

I want to understand why.

I’m still not ready to scream Twitter’s praises. Don’t get me wrong, I can see how Twitter is useful. It offers endless opportunities for sharing – Twitter connects vast numbers of people in an instant and provides continually updated material. However, this instantaneous connection and continued monitoring is where I’m lost. It seems in order to really ‘get’ Twitter, you need to be there, finger poised (one ear listening, one eye watching). With attention thus divided, you are ready to record, comment or search whatever is happening in your real world experience.

How does one find the time?

Of course it can be fun and mentally stimulating to engage in a 140 character exchange that bounces among # with direct @. Of course Twitter is a great repository for ideas – resources are discovered, checked and shared within minutes (which is why it’s sensational for teachers).

So, why am I finding it so difficult to chirp with the flock?

Perhaps my reflective nature gets in the way. I like to ponder an idea – let it wander along minds’s paths before sharing  it with myself, let alone others. The thought of tweeting while listening to a conference speaker (or over dinner) just seems too sudden. While I may gnash my teeth at an ignorant TV commentator, I’m not sure telling my followers would serve a purpose.

Wherein lays the tweeting turmoil.

What is the purpose, what is the Big Picture?  I like to know, that I know, why I am doing something. I believe purpose is important.

So, why use Twitter? 

It is a fantastic vehicle for sharing resources. It offers a space to share blog posts and updates. Twitter has helped me extended my PLN and I feel a kinship to an amazing group of innovative teachers who have generously share their expertise. But I want more. My picture is still 2D and I crave a 4D experience. I know I could be doing more.

How does one find the time?

 

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

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Filed Under: Blog, Technology Tagged With: is Twitter great for teachers, tweeting turmoil, why use Twitter, You're on Twitter right

Not Laptops,Tablets

February 9, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

Tablets are a more effective learning tool than laptops. There, I’ve said it, and I’ll say it again and again and again until someone notices because, at a time where the federal government is being non committal over continued funding for the 1:1 laptop program, we have an opportunity to rethink technology spending.

While generally appreciated, the current lap top program has not been without its problems. The computers are small, limited in their capacity and only just managed to survive the rough world of the school bag. Then there’s the problems caused by the defensive wall of raised screens. Of course, students  “close screens” during discussions, however when taking notes, working on tasks and researching, barriers are raised. Leaving aside the surveillance software and revised teaching techniques necessary to ensure students are ‘on task’ (rather that gaming, face booking or random surfing), 1:1 laptops often created a disconnected classroom atmosphere. The students walk in, raise their screen, fix their gaze and plug in to the digital microcosm. Handwriting also suffers. This is a problem because exams responses are written and, by their final year of school, students are expected to produce extended, coherent, critically evaluative essays. Both the thought processes and the mechanical skills required to produce these responses requires practise.

Lots and lots of practise.

Enter the humble tablet, loaded with appropriate apps and accompanied by paper and pen. The tablet sits flat or at a slight angle. Teachers and students maintain the eye contact essential for mutual respect and understanding. Importantly, tablets can hold textbooks. Even better, teachers can design their own textbooks complete with hyperlinks and collaborative activities. Better still, students can design personal learning tools and share them with each other. Tablets are lighter, more portable and, since they alleviate the need for heavy textbooks and folders, potentially reduce the need for cumbersome backpacks. Notes can be taken using a combination of paper and digital form, reading can occur off line and online and students can be taught how to use mobile technology as a functional tool, rather than being a slave to digital connectivity.

Yes, I know laptops can do much of what I have described and yes I realise the inherent problems of security, damage and pressure on networks that tablet computing may cause. Nevertheless, tablets are transforming the way we work. We should be placing tablets in our student’s hands and saying experiment, explore and use this as a tool to enhance your learning.

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

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Filed Under: Blog, Learning, Technology Tagged With: federal government spending on 1:1 laptop program, Tablest are an effective learning tool, Tablets are better than laptops for school, use tablets at school

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