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Transformative Teaching Takes Time

December 20, 2012 By Nicole Feledy

Australia’s results in the Progress in International Reading Literacy Study were disappointing. Peter Hatcher, writing in The Sydney Morning Herald, suggests we need “more transformative teachers in our schools”. To Peter, and anyone else who may agree with him I say, look carefully and you will see we already have transformative teachers in our schools. Unfortunately, much of their talent is wasted.

Why? Because they are buried under mountains of bureaucratic systems management. Put simply, teachers are not given time to teach. Good teaching, transformative teaching takes time. Teachers need time to prepare innovative lessons. They need time to deliver challenging, relevant, practically focused classes. Teachers need time to reflect upon teaching and learning practices. Transformative teaching also requires immense energy.

How many visitors to schools take a good look at teacher’s faces? Have you seen the exhaustion behind the positive smile? Perhaps you noted how a teacher’s eyes dart with Mad Eye Mooney dexterity – to remain alert to everything happening around them. Maybe you have registered the apologetic shoulder slump as they explain they only have a couple of minutes to discuss your child’s progress because they are about to;

–  dash off to speak with a parent,
–  attend a meeting,
–  write reports,
–  answer parent emails,
–  prepare materials for the next class,
–  complete paperwork for the upcoming excursion (or to report an incident that happened on playground duty),

before they are ready to teach class for the remainder of the afternoon.

Perhaps you questioned time management and wondered if any of these tasks could wait until after school. In an apologetic tone, the teacher probably explained after school they will;

–  attend a PD session,
–  set an exam for next week,
–  mark the exams completed yesterday,
–  prepare a series of lessons based on the PD session (they are hoping the PD will be relevant so they can tie it in to a lesson earlier today when it became obvious the students needed to spend more time on foundational skills before moving on to the next content unit),
–  catch the latest twitter or linked in feed to uncover some useful PD.

Maybe, you looked up in surprise and questioned if this was a particularly busy day. Sadly, the teacher would probably shake their head and respond, “no, this is a normal day”.

If you then wondered how anyone could possibly juggle all of these tasks and still have time to;

–  think creatively,
–  read the latest research,
–  collaborate with colleagues to devise fresh teaching approaches,

you may begin to understand what Australia needs to do to lift its educational standards. It really is quite simple (and it goes beyond funding, testing and attracting the ‘best’). Give teachers time to teach.

It is time to look closely at the teachers we already have. Most are brilliant. Most teachers in our schools are compassionate, creative, intelligent innovators with high empathy skills. I know this because I worked in a school where each of my colleagues was a highly competent, considerate professional.  I regularly attend TeachMeets where I gather with dedicated, passionate teachers who share exceptional learning strategies. I have mentored amazingly talented university students (on teaching prac) who demonstrated enthusiasm, commitment and in-depth content knowledge of their subject area.

So, let’s gaze inside real schools and consider what is broken, rather than looking outside at what may be broken. Policy makers should attach themselves to ‘chalk face teachers’ and spend a couple of months within schools before they determine what is needed to raise the standard of education in Australian schools. We need primary, in the field, practical research, not a group of consultants observing from afar and collecting ‘one size fits all’ data. In the words of Atticus Finch, “You can never really understand a person until you consider all things from his point of view – until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” We already have many brilliant teachers, they simply need the opportunity to do the brilliant work they desperately want to do.

Teachers need time to teach and although some people like to focus on  ‘all the holidays’ a teacher has remember, school holidays are for students, teachers have ‘non-term time’. During non-term time teachers either work from home or on campus. They prepare next term’s lessons, catch up on filing, amend programs, read current research and complete PD.

Finally, in the spirit of the season, let me leave you with an analogy relevant to staying safe over the holiday period. We know drivers must be well rested to remain alert. No matter how skilful a person is behind the wheel, they cannot drive with precision if they are tired. That is why we are taught to “stop, revive, survive”. We are told to rest during the ‘revive’ period – this is not a time for dashing around. We also know sleep cannot be ‘banked’ for latter. You know how dangerous it would be to suggest an extra 3 hours sleep today would let you drive an extra 3 hours tomorrow.

Please give teachers the time they need to teach with precision and expertise.

Welcome to a World of Expression

Other posts linked to this topic, What do Students Need, A teaching Analogy for the Bureaucratically Minded

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Filed Under: Blog, Teaching Tagged With: Australia's results in International Reading Literacy Study, teacher need time, teachers need time to teach, Transformative Teaching Takes Time

Give Power to the Students

November 25, 2012 By Nicole Feledy

Are the pollies frightened of our kids becoming too educated? I know they talk about Australia leading the intellectual race, but are their words simply designed to appease anxious parents and apprehensive industry? Could suggested education reforms be calculated for control and accountability, rather than aspiring for innovation and construction?

Naplan, MySchools, budget cuts to education portfolios, blaming teachers for not being smart enough, increased administrative tasks and imposing rigid systems, all seem counterproductive. How can they inspire the flexibility of thought or adoption of proactive strategies that inspire the habits of mind required for a dynamic 21st century workforce.

Perhaps governments are concerned that a flexible thinking, critically literate society would see past political rhetoric. Maybe those whose leadership is based on hurling insults or fudging figures are worried because creative and emotionally literate individuals are less predictable. Could they be worried that a thinking populous would undermine the fabric of society as they know it?

Of course critical thinking and blind compliance do not go hand in hand. A critically, creatively and emotionally literate society has the potential to recognise untruths, make objective decisions and choose to act responsibly, all of their own accord. What would the administrators and bureaucrats do if the vast majority of the population were able to voice their opinions in an authentic and assertive manner? Worse, what would they do if people had the tools to think for themselves? Is that why calls for effective education reform fall on deaf ears?

Schools need the freedom and funds to do what is in the best interest of students. Our children need the empowerment inspired by critical, creative and emotionally literacy. The children of today are the leaders of the future. It is time they were given an opportunity to develop an authentic voice and provided with the platform to speak. They need to learn the focused, self motivated skills of lifelong learners. The old industrial model of schooling is no longer applicable. Students do not need to sit in organised rows, diligently digesting content poured from a fountain of textbook trapped knowledge. Instead they need to become digitally proficient investigators who can analyse, evaluate and synthesise information from a variety of sources. Today’s student needs to become a flexible thinker who has the courage to reach beyond what is known to what could be.

Literacy is the key. Critical, creative and emotional literacy can open the door to 21st century learning. It is the foundation for collaborative and project based learning experiences that offer opportunities to participate in learning that has a practical, real world focus.

It is time to take a proactive approach and equip all children with the tools they require to access inner awareness, discover an authentic voice and become confident lifelong learners who have the skills to thrive in a digitally enhanced landscape.

Welcome to a world of Expression

Filed Under: Blog, Reading, Teaching, Writing Tagged With: education reform, kids becoming too educated, lifelong learners, literacy skills, power of critical literacy, power to students, welcome to a world of expression

A Worrisome World of Cyber Concern

November 18, 2012 By Nicole Feledy

Is the internet a “parents’ worst nightmare”? Political columnist Michelle Grattan suggests “Parents’ concerns means that the pollies are getting worried too.”  Yes parents are worried. So are schools, teachers and counselors. The question is, how can we help. Of course we rely on governments to offer secure legislative foundations. But legislation, rules and restrictions are not enough.

We need proactive strategies that empower children to protect themself. A year ago I suggested we need to teach students how to use Facebook responsibly. Now it is time to examine ways to encourage teenagers to develop their own authentic voice. Our children may be digital natives, but they are not equipped to navigate a new world filled with enhanced, old world problems. Children are being bullied on-line and parents feel powerless to help. Schools cannot keep up with rapidly expanding environments that offer limitless opportunities to explore digital frontiers.  Government legislation struggles to compete with boarders opened by technological keys.

We all know dangers lurk within cyber realms. We all know steps must be taken to ensure the safety of our kids. But too many programs focus on digital treatments; it is time to develop technology vaccinations.

Parents, carers and teachers need to know how to help children realise they can minimise risk. Of course we need to provide safe places. However, our children also need their own shields and weapons; tools that empower and protect. We need to help our teenagers develop the skills they need to help themselves; this has particularly relevance for those times we are not there to guide them.

Today’s child is uber-connected. Many have a well developed sense of social conscience, however they feel disenfranchised and detached. They are lost within a world that bombards them with information but doesn’t take the time to teach them the practical strategies they need to interpret or evaluate that information. Today’s children are pioneers in a wild cyber world that evolves rapidly. Many adults misinterpret the effect of growing up in digitally connected spaces. They forget that being exposed to multiple cultures and ideas can lead to a wider sense of social justice. Many of today’s youth are sensitive to the needs of faceless others but, because their connections are cyber based, they fail to develop personal connections. This fracture leads to confusion and frustration. Our kids want to ‘matter’ they want to feel as though they have a voice and that someone will listen. They want their life to mean something. Yet, too often they lack the self awareness or literacy skills to articulate their thoughts and emotions to themselves, let alone wider society. Too many suffer from anxiety and low self-esteem because they lack the skills to interpret what they are thinking and feeling. As a result they ‘act up’ and ‘lash out’, directing inner anger toward outer victims. They settle for destructive relationships and hide behind a peer favored mask.

I believe students can use critical reflection and thoughtful expression to discover the path of a lifelong learner. My quest is to help young adults develop critical, emotional and creative literacy. Through the mindful appreciation of stories, narrative technique, focused breathing and creative visualisation students can learn how to identify and manage their emotions. When teenagers discover they have a voice that speaks loud enough to be heard, they may begin to develop a sense of where their lives fit within a wider community.

MyStory; MyQuest is my attempt to help teens find inner awareness, discover an authentic voice and become confident lifelong learners who have the skills to thrive in  digitally enhanced landscapes.

Welcome to a World of Expression

Filed Under: Blog, Teaching, Technology Tagged With: cyber concern, cyber safety, Develop authentic voice, power of critical literacy, stop cyber bullying, stop online bullying, use facebook responsibly, welcome to a world of expression

What Should Teachers Teach?

October 21, 2012 By Nicole Feledy

The role of teachers is one of those perennial topics that rides the media circuit with alarming regularity. It seems everyone has an opinion about what constitutes effective teaching and politicians, journalists and researchers are all eager to add their voice to various teaching associations and parent groups in order to explain what ‘should’ happen in the classroom.

While there are some differences of opinion, it is generally acknowledged that the teachers who have the most impact on learning outcomes, are those who take the time to understand their student needs and perceive them as individual learners (rather than a homogenous mass). At this point I could start pointing to various research studies and highlight some of the amazing work being done by individual teachers. Alternatively I could bemoan the lack of understanding demonstrated by those who do not spend the best part of each day standing in front of a class. But I won’t. Like many others, I have already written posts which explore attitudes toward teachers and teaching (Just a Teacher, What Do Students Need, Teacher Need Time to Think, A Teaching Analagy for the Bureaucratically Minded)

Instead I would like to share the thoughts of three learners (teen and adult ) who responded to a question I asked about a year ago; ‘what should teachers teach?’ The answers are not ground-breakingly new, however they are refreshingly candid, direct and practical. These are comments made by learners who have a clear vision of the teacher they need.

“Teachers should be able to teach their students how to learn. They teach them about the subject of choice but also the life lessons our parents sometimes forget to teach us. They should teach us how to work hard, how to get results when we need them, how to calm down before an exam, etc. In my view teachers are there to teach me how to learn. In life I will need to have the skill of learning about different things at difficult times.” (Amy)

“Teachers should teach you how to come up with the answers on your own”. (Danny)

“The bits in between that I don’t get…Even now.” (Charlene)

What do you think? What do you want from your teacher? Perhaps equally importantly, what do you expect from yourself as a learner? Compare your responses to  those above and think about what they suggest about the relationship between teaching and learning. Now, recall all of the news reports you have seen recently about teaching and learning. Are we on the same page?

Welcome to a World of Expression.

 

Filed Under: Blog, Teaching Tagged With: effective teaching, teachers teach how to learn, What should teachers teach

Boys Behaving Badly; a Symptom of a Failing Education System

July 29, 2012 By Nicole Feledy

William Golding’s novel, The Lord of the Flies is a classic piece of literature that opens the door to profound discussion.  When introducing this novel to a class, I usually direct their attention toward current social practices and ask; Is a person born evil or is evil a learnt behaviour. In a scary twist of fate, each time I teach the novel, the media delivers a story about boys behaving badly. Last year it was the London riots. This year the story was closer to home. This year the papers shared the heart wrenching story of Thomas Kelly and Kieran Loveridge.

 It is not my intention to discuss the question of innate or learnt evilness here. Nor is this a comparison between the writings of Golding and modern society (although a post comparing Loveridge and the character of Jack begs to be written). Rather, I would like to explore comments made recently in the Sydney Morning Herald.

An article entitled, ‘Sydney’s Newest Sport – Beat Someone Senseless or Kill them for the Heck of It ‘ (chilling in itself) appeared in the SMH on pg 13 (interesting structural choice) on the 28/7/2012. In this article, Sydney’s Father Riley (founder of Youth Off  The Streets) was quoted as saying “I wish I’d gotten to this kid [Loveridge] sooner. All kids want is a connection. When you connect a kid you can turn them around”. In the same space, youth psychologist Michael Carr-Gregg speaks of seeing an increasing number of angry adolescent males. Carr-Gregg creates a picture of a youth who is “beset with rigid, inflexible thinking, has no respect for authority, little exposure to tradition or ritual and has few, if any skills in anger management.”

To my way of thinking, these comments reflect a failure in our schools. Father Riley and Carr-Gregg highlight the problems besetting an education system which is too rigid, too inflexible and too slow to offer meaningful change. The institution of education is reactive rather than adaptive. Instead of being proactive, it offers band aid solutions – medicine to treat the disease, rather than lifestyle innovations to prevent it from occurring.

I find people such as Father Riley and Carr-Gregg inspirational. They are actively working towards improving the lives of teenagers in a practical sense. Even though individuals such as Father Riley and Carr-Gregg only reach the students they connect with, their ideas can, by proxy, reach many more. This is where teachers and schools may make a difference.

As a teacher, forged in the kiln of the classroom, I and many others who share a similar vision want to enact change. But we need those who  form policies, to listen. Rather than being bogged down by consumerist debates regarding funding, class sizes, facilities and who has power in a school (yes of course these are important topics, but they are not the places to find  preventive solutions to mindset problems) we need to change what and how kids are taught. Teachers need to be mentors who are connected to their students. To achieve this level of connectiveness, teachers need to be intuitive, empathic and alert. They need the space to be creative and the time to develop their own sense of well being, so that they may support their students. Students require this support in order to develop a sense of identity and, so that they may experience a sense of security within a community.

Of course, it is not enough to talk about developing student’s self esteem and personal responsibility. Action needs to be taken. I believe the key is creative, critical literacy. Being able to wield the skills of creative, critical literacy opens the door to a World of Expression. When a person believes their voice will be heard, they are more likely to feel secure in their identity.

How does a person uncover this key? By actively making a choice to travel the learning path. When a person perceives learning as FUN (functional, universal and necessary) they are more likely to accept learning as a valuable lifelong process. If a person identifies themselves as a Learner, they have access to tools which can help them LEAF through life’s pages. In other words they can draw upon the skills required live life in a loving, enthusiastic, aware and flexible manner.

You may be wondering how a person can develop this mindset for learning. I believe a person develops a learning mindset when they feel as though their learning is relevant. Learners learn best when they are supported and connected. In other words, when they feel centred and balanced. This is why I believe practices such as meditation and mindfulness should be core components in school curriculums. We should be teaching young people how to connect with themselves so that they may appreciate outer connections to community.

This is what I plan to do. I am determined to create a learning environment which offers young adults a place to learn about themselves and their place within a wider eco/social system; a mindfully, creative meditative way of living

Perhaps, if Loveridge had a different school experience, an experience that met him where he was and walked beside him as he developed a secure sense of self awareness and community connectivity, he may have found different ways to feel as though he mattered.

What do you think? Can schools become a place of learning rather than an institution of education?

Welcome to a World of Expression.

Filed Under: Blog, Self Esteem, Teaching Tagged With: Boys Behaving Badly, is a person born evil

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