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Why We Must Teach Digital Literacy

June 19, 2011 By Nicole Feledy

We all know that the educational needs and values of 21st century learners are vastly different to the industrial model offered in most Australian schools. This is based on the belief that the literacy skills and understandings required to survive in a modern digital world involve so much more than an ability to discern meaning from words printed on a page. Similarly, we recognise that in age where information is literally at our fingertip, the learning process is often more relevant than the learning of content. As Howard Gardner points out in his 5 Minds for the Future, today’s learners need to develop the ability to think in a disciplined, synergetic and creative way which is both respectful and ethical.

The video below is 55minutes long, however it is worth watching. It offers an encouraging insight into a future for all schools. I sincerely hope that those busily developing our National Curriculum remember to put opportunities in front of our students, instead of ego-centric hierarchical bureaucracy.

Digital Media – New Learners of the 21st Century

Filed Under: Learning Tagged With: Digital learners in the 21st century, Learning

School Camp

June 13, 2011 By Nicole Feledy

It has been an ‘interesting week’, a week which required a ‘long weekend’ to recover, but here I am, ready to reflect on my ‘school camp’ experience.

I discovered that school camps are a place where creativity, flexibility and bravery are the by-products of deprivation, challenge and communal living. In this way, school camp offers students (and their teachers) an alternate reality. We are wrenched from our parental and technological cocoon and placed in an alien world where the cold wind reaches its icy fingers into the deepest recesses of a person’s being – in both a literal and a figurative sense.  

It is obvious that ‘school camps’ offer individuals the opportunity to learn about aspects of themselves they did not know existed. At ‘camp’ students may be pushed to their limits and encouraged to consider alternate approaches to day to day tasks. They learn about their own emotional responses to external situations and they begin to appreciate exactly what they can achieve when they need to achieve it. They learn about teamwork, the characteristics of a leader and, that even though they each have the capacity to lead, some may feel more comfortable in the role than others. Similarly they begin to appreciate that management and teamwork require different levels of cooperation and effective communication. In short, they learn a little bit more about themselves, their motivations and their fears.  Yet this is not the benefit I derived most from my week in the wilderness.

After a few days in the bush I learnt that I am not as young, and certainly not as fit, as I used to be. With this realisation came the reminder that even though we may see the same event, hear the same story, or experience the same situation, chances are our interpretations will be widely variant.  Similarly, although I may not be able to say I enjoyed my school camp experience, I can certainly say that I cherished it. It is here that I begin to illuminate the heart of my school camp experience. It is here, within the thought processes of these two observations that I find solace. We all have within us the ability to consider a situation from an alternate perspective and discover the beauty within adversity. One word to describe this experience is tolerance, however I prefer to broaden the concept to AWARENESS. This is how we come to our own understanding of ourself and our place within a wider system.  

School camp reminded me to treasure experiences that were not delightful because they teach us what it is to live a sensational life.  

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Filed Under: Self Esteem Tagged With: camp, school camp

Teachers & Teens

March 27, 2011 By Nicole Feledy

Recently I attended a ‘Preparation for HSC’ presentation, delivered by the charismatically practical, Teen psychologist Michael Carr-Gregg.  During this presentation Carr-Gregg offered many tasty titbits to encourage students and placate parents. For students he offered specific study strategies which aimed to reduce study related stress and improve memory. For parents he suggested ways to support from the shadows. However for me as a teacher, one of the most compelling insights was the idea that the most important relationships a student has in their final years of schooling are the ones they have with their teachers.  

Teachers understand this and I suspect, so do many students. The final years of school witness an evolution in the teacher / student dynamic. Teachers become mentors and coaches rather than instructors and trainers. Thus the formal disciplinary line blurs when students recognise the value of respectful discourse and collaborative effort. In short, successful senior students emerge from their self absorbed cocoon to become inwardly motivated, focused individuals who are willing to accept responsibility for their own actions because they have recognised the link between choice and consequence.

It is useful to consider the implications of this renewed relationship.  As teachers we must recognise the responsibility and privilege place upon us. We have the opportunity and moral obligation to guide and support our students as they face what to them, appears to be one of life’s biggest hurdles. Although we may have approached this leap many times (so it becomes a mere ‘blimp’) this is usually their first foray into life beyond secure school walls.  As a result students often rely on our experience and calm resolute demeanour to power and inspire their effort.  Teachers can offer the map, tools and strategies required to navigate the knowledge path. However they can also ‘make magic’ through simple words of encouragement and belief in the individual. We are not their parents, nor are we their friends, we are quite simply ‘there’ when they need to know they matter.

Michael Carr-Gregg

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Filed Under: Teaching Tagged With: Student, teacher, what students want from their teachers

How Effectively Do You Study?

February 27, 2011 By Nicole Feledy

Do you have a specific study strategy that works? Many students claim they study, but do they really follow a system that is efficient, effective and focused?

One of the first tips students are given when they start to ask questions about effective study habits is; Identify your learning style

 The most commonly identifiable leaning styles are;

  • Visual – see
  • Auditory – hear
  • Kinaesthetic – do

 In simple terms,

Visual learners encode (or learn) more effectively when they;

  • Read, view pictures, charts and graphs etc
  • Visualise ideas and concepts as images within their mind
  • Use imagination and creativity

Auditory Learners encode (or learn) more effectively when they;

  • Hear information aloud
  • Discuss information

 Kinaesthetic Learners encode (or learn) more effectively when they;

  • Physically engage or actively manipulate the information
  • Take notes or draw while learning
  • Physically move while learning

 You can assess your preferred learning style by doing online tests such as the ones found at http://www.metamath.com/multiple/multiple_choice_questions.html

 BUT!!!!!

 In real terms, even though it is useful to be aware of the existence of learning styles, and to have an idea about the ones you feel most comfortable with, to truly be an effective learner, you need to use strategies from each style when learning and encoding new ideas, information and skills.

 It has been suggested that the more learners integrate and develop the skills favoured by each learning style, the more information they will retain.

 WHY!!!

  1. Information is more easily retrieved when the environment in which that information was encoded matches the environment in which the information is decoded. In other words, if you need to produce material in an examination situation (quiet, seated on a chair behind a desk) you should also study in an environment that is quiet, while seated on a chair, behind a desk.
  2. Recall is usually improved if information is heard out aloud, particularly when we say it ourselves.
  3. Similarly, we tend remember things we have done.

So it can be very useful to;

  • Teach someone else the skill or information (do)
  • Read your notes and record them, then play them back (see & hear & speak)
  • Complete practice or past papers (do)

 Carefully consider what you have just read,

 Did you see that learning and encoding theories require a combination of visual, audial and kinaesthetic skills? And did you hear how improving the efficiency of your learning involves utilising visual, audial and kinaesthetic skills. So, do you feel more confident knowing that blending visual, audial and kinaesthetic skills can improve your recall ability?    

Now, have you noticed the techniques used to help you encode information?

  • Repetition
  • Using each learning style
  • Questioning

 Repetition feeds Recall

 The KEY point here is that when each learning style is activated, you are learning. You are encoding and cementing new information because you are actively involved in the learning process.

 THE MORE ACTIVELY YOU ARE INVOLVED IN THE LEARNING PROCESS, AND THE MORE ACTIVELY YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH THE MATERIAL THE MORE YOU WILL LEARN!!!

Filed Under: Study Tips Tagged With: effective study habits, how do you study

Take the Lead – Recognise the Need to Accept Personal Responsibility

January 18, 2011 By Nicole Feledy

Stories provide so much more than simple entertainment. They offer relief, respite and safe experiences. Stories propose alternative perspectives and unlock secret worlds. This is why stories are important in our lives. The key is to approach them both mindfully and critically. The reward is greater insight and awareness. Recently I watched the movie Take the Lead staring Antonio Banderas and based on the true story of Pierre Dulaine. This inspirational teacher recognised that in learning how to dance (ballroom), individuals also learn teamwork, dignity and respect.

My favourite part in the clip below occurs when Dulaine (Banderas) explains,  “The man proposes the step and it is the women’s choice to accept” Here, simply put, is the idea that we make our own choices. Understanding this concept is one of the most important steps in moving from a ‘victim’ mentality to position of strength.

In most instances when you make the decision to take the lead, you also recognise the need to accept personal responsibility. In fact, it could be suggested that an important aspect of developing a secure sense of Self involves, taking the lead, taking charge and accepting that we are accountable for our own actions. This point is clearly conveyed in the movie. Don’t just take my word for it, watch the movie and see what you think. Remember, although you watch the movie to enjoy it, you can also digest its power.

Stories have the power to inspire, motivate and create magic, but you need to make the choice, to consciously feel the energy.  

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Filed Under: Powerful stories, Self Esteem Tagged With: accept personal responsibility, Pierre Dulaine, take the lead

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