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“You’re On Twitter Right?”

February 20, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

Yes!  I offer a self satisfied smile and keep the internal shudder to myself. Yes, I am on Twitter. I even send the occasional tweet (at least once a week), check my twitter feed (at least once a week) and retweet (on the odd occasion). But I still don’t think I’m doing right.

I want to understand why.

I’m still not ready to scream Twitter’s praises. Don’t get me wrong, I can see how Twitter is useful. It offers endless opportunities for sharing – Twitter connects vast numbers of people in an instant and provides continually updated material. However, this instantaneous connection and continued monitoring is where I’m lost. It seems in order to really ‘get’ Twitter, you need to be there, finger poised (one ear listening, one eye watching). With attention thus divided, you are ready to record, comment or search whatever is happening in your real world experience.

How does one find the time?

Of course it can be fun and mentally stimulating to engage in a 140 character exchange that bounces among # with direct @. Of course Twitter is a great repository for ideas – resources are discovered, checked and shared within minutes (which is why it’s sensational for teachers).

So, why am I finding it so difficult to chirp with the flock?

Perhaps my reflective nature gets in the way. I like to ponder an idea – let it wander along minds’s paths before sharing  it with myself, let alone others. The thought of tweeting while listening to a conference speaker (or over dinner) just seems too sudden. While I may gnash my teeth at an ignorant TV commentator, I’m not sure telling my followers would serve a purpose.

Wherein lays the tweeting turmoil.

What is the purpose, what is the Big Picture?  I like to know, that I know, why I am doing something. I believe purpose is important.

So, why use Twitter? 

It is a fantastic vehicle for sharing resources. It offers a space to share blog posts and updates. Twitter has helped me extended my PLN and I feel a kinship to an amazing group of innovative teachers who have generously share their expertise. But I want more. My picture is still 2D and I crave a 4D experience. I know I could be doing more.

How does one find the time?

 

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

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Filed Under: Blog, Technology Tagged With: is Twitter great for teachers, tweeting turmoil, why use Twitter, You're on Twitter right

Not Laptops,Tablets

February 9, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

Tablets are a more effective learning tool than laptops. There, I’ve said it, and I’ll say it again and again and again until someone notices because, at a time where the federal government is being non committal over continued funding for the 1:1 laptop program, we have an opportunity to rethink technology spending.

While generally appreciated, the current lap top program has not been without its problems. The computers are small, limited in their capacity and only just managed to survive the rough world of the school bag. Then there’s the problems caused by the defensive wall of raised screens. Of course, students  “close screens” during discussions, however when taking notes, working on tasks and researching, barriers are raised. Leaving aside the surveillance software and revised teaching techniques necessary to ensure students are ‘on task’ (rather that gaming, face booking or random surfing), 1:1 laptops often created a disconnected classroom atmosphere. The students walk in, raise their screen, fix their gaze and plug in to the digital microcosm. Handwriting also suffers. This is a problem because exams responses are written and, by their final year of school, students are expected to produce extended, coherent, critically evaluative essays. Both the thought processes and the mechanical skills required to produce these responses requires practise.

Lots and lots of practise.

Enter the humble tablet, loaded with appropriate apps and accompanied by paper and pen. The tablet sits flat or at a slight angle. Teachers and students maintain the eye contact essential for mutual respect and understanding. Importantly, tablets can hold textbooks. Even better, teachers can design their own textbooks complete with hyperlinks and collaborative activities. Better still, students can design personal learning tools and share them with each other. Tablets are lighter, more portable and, since they alleviate the need for heavy textbooks and folders, potentially reduce the need for cumbersome backpacks. Notes can be taken using a combination of paper and digital form, reading can occur off line and online and students can be taught how to use mobile technology as a functional tool, rather than being a slave to digital connectivity.

Yes, I know laptops can do much of what I have described and yes I realise the inherent problems of security, damage and pressure on networks that tablet computing may cause. Nevertheless, tablets are transforming the way we work. We should be placing tablets in our student’s hands and saying experiment, explore and use this as a tool to enhance your learning.

Welcome to a World of Expression

 

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Filed Under: Blog, Learning, Technology Tagged With: federal government spending on 1:1 laptop program, Tablest are an effective learning tool, Tablets are better than laptops for school, use tablets at school

Are You Happy?

January 31, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

How often do you think, ‘I just need to finish this and then, I will be happy’? Perhaps friends, family or teachers remind you, ‘happiness is the reward for putting in the effort, working hard and achieving your goals’. But what about your current state of mind? How happy do you feel right now? Maybe your quest to achieve today, so you can be happy in the future, is the problem.




Shawn Achor in this TED video explains how raising positivity in our present can ‘turn on’ parts of the brain that help us function more efficiently and learn more effectively. Watch the video and see Achor using humour to illustrate why actively managing your thoughts can help you develop a positive mindset. The benefit of recognising the positive now, rather than believing happiness will result from achieving something in the future, is that you place yourself in a position to identify opportunities and create what you want to create.

Of course, happiness and positivity are not necessarily synonymous terms, but I will leave that post for another day. Watch the video and let me know what you think.

Welcome to a World of Expression

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Filed Under: Blog, Self Esteem Tagged With: Are you happy, How happy do you feel, learn more effectively, raising positivity, Shaun Achor

Do You Grasp Concepts or Hold Ideas?

January 14, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

Do you think, or do you follow the thinking of others? Do you use ideas, or do you repeat them? Are you willing to play with knowledge, or do you store facts in neat little memory bundles. How responsible are you for your own learning?

Dr Derek Cabrera says we need to actively teach our students to think for themselves (rather than encouraging them to memorise  and regurgitate facts on a test). I agree. Students who ‘grasp’ ideas, rather than ‘holding’ facts, tend to be more flexible, more creative and better equipped to thrive in a world that exists beyond the school gates.

Which learning experience would you prefer?

Think for a moment about the difference between the words ‘grasp’ and ‘hold’ (incidentally, recognising difference is the ‘D’ part of Cabrera’s DSRP thinking method). To grasp something is to take it firmly ‘in hand’. We also use the word ‘grasp’ to signify mental comprehension – i.e. ‘I grasp your meaning’. In contrast the word ‘hold’ generally implies to keep or maintain something.

Can you guess why it is better to grasp ideas, than hold facts? Again, think about it. While you are thinking, consider the impact of connotation. Remember connotation refers to a word’s ‘vibe’ –  its implied or associated meaning.  You may recognise that grasp implies a much stronger force than simply holding. Therefore, grasping ideas offers an impression of actively and relentlessly gathering and synthesising ideas to create a solid foundation for further thought. In contrast, holding facts presents an image of keeping information in storage. The key difference is that grasping an idea involves a proactive action whereas holding facts tends to be a passive.

You may be wondering why I am labouring the difference between grasping and holding (perhaps you want to know why I am asking so many questions). The easy response is I want to encourage you to think about your own thinking process. The more visible thinking becomes, the easier it is to identify areas of strength (and weakness) and the easier it is to direct thoughts towards generative actions. The other reason is to mentally prepare you, before introducing an acronym I use in my classes.

Put simply, I devised the acronym GRASP to describe the process of critical thinking.

G – gather information from a variety of sources
R – reflect upon the ideas within the information
A – analyse the validity of the ideas, test them against each other and your own experience
S – synthesise ideas to create new perspectives and fresh thoughts
P – propose new ideas and strategies

Students who GRASP concepts rather than holding ideas, recognise that any reading, listening or viewing activity can became an active ‘thinking’ opportunity. In this sense you participate, direct and ‘learn’, rather than simply being an observer of someone else’s thinking. Taking control of your own learning, is the first step toward becoming a lifelong learner and a positive step toward taking control of your own life.

Welcome to a World of Expression

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Filed Under: Blog, Learning Tagged With: critical reflection, grasp concepts, Grasp concepts or hold ideas, learning experience, play with knowledge, responsible for own learning

Within, Without and Below the Story

January 7, 2013 By Nicole Feledy

On its own, reading can be a passive activity. However you can increase your critical understanding of what you read by training yourself to be simultaneously ‘within’, ‘without’ and ‘below’ the story. In simple terms, when reading, you can experience the narrative as a participant (a character), you can examine the narrative as an omniscient observer and you can manipulate the narrative through direct awareness of the subtext. 

The ‘Within, Without and Below’ process is a 3D approach which offers an in-depth, multi perspective appreciation of a text and, it helps you determine how (and why) the narrative is relevant to you. In essence, being within, without and below the story can help you locate embedded learning. Therefore, the ‘Within, Without and Below’ process acts as a catalyst for building your own knowledge from ideas you have gathered. It is a system of tripartite synthesis that offers an opportunity to consolidate learning and create your own concepts. Deep learning occurs because you are actively blending your thoughts, with the ideas of others, to construct ‘new’ meaning. 

Interestingly, the ‘Within, Without and Below’ reading process works equally well with fiction and non-fiction. While it is true that non-fiction texts may not be ‘stories’ per se, many non fiction texts contain story elements or narrative techniques. For instance, most texts utilise specific language features (ie descriptive, persuasive, informative) to establish a particular tone or mood. Recognising how (and why) these features are used provides clues for interpreting subtext. Similarly, becoming aware of point-of-view offers signals for discerning purpose and bias. This is useful for determining a text’s relevance to your situation. Therefore, regardless of text type, it is possible to explore a text from multiple perspectives using an awareness of narrative functions.

Can you imagine how this may benefit you? Think forward for a moment and predict what the world may look like 10 years from now. Which skills and tools will be required to navigate a world where information is easily obtained and constantly changing technology promotes opportunities and delivers challenges? An endless parade of innovative goods and services will supplant current products and practices, leading to constant revisions of social norms. Who will create these fresh perspectives?

Now imagine your future. Where will you be, what will you be doing?

Chances are the world will continue to change – have you considered your position within it? While it may be impossible to accurately forecast the future, it is possible to make a choice about your role within it. You can choose today, to develop the skills that will prepare you for an unknown tomorrow. You can choose to become a lifelong learner who ‘reads’ patterns and ‘adapts’ new systems. You can choose to gather the tools of critical, emotional and creative literacy (analysis, evaluation, synthesis and construction), so you may direct a course to your future.  

The ‘Within, Without and Below’ process is best demonstrated ‘live’, however here is a brief overview:

1.  Listen while a passage from a story is read to you (you could record yourself reading the passage and then listen back to it)

2.  Listen to passage a second time, but this time close your eyes and imagine yourself within the story. You may be one of the characters or you may be an ‘additional character who acts as a friend or advisor. Allow yourself to become part of the story and notice how you react to the situations encountered.

3. Engage in a focused breathing and creative visualisation exercise where you take charge of the story. Imagine what ‘could’ happen next if you were in control.

4. As soon as you have finished the creative visualisation, write for 10 minutes about a thematic issue raised in the text (without editing or censuring your thoughts).

5. Discuss the ideas born from the text and your own writing.

6. Return to the written copy of the passage. Focus on the language used by the author. In particular pay attention to connotation and figurative language. Consider the reasons behind the author’s choice of words. Reflect how you would (and did) express similar concepts.

7. Write an evaluative piece. This will be a polished piece of writing that has been drafted several times to ensure accuracy and coherency. You may like to publish this as a blog post and invite others to comment on your ideas.

Obviously this is a process that takes time. However, if you train your mind to think ‘within, without and below’ using exercises such as this, you may find yourself reading in such a way that the process occurs almost automatically.  The key point to remember is that passive reading is not ‘learning’, it is simply following words to a destination. However, if you choose to actively think about and manipulate the words on the page, you can begin to construct ideas. This is how ‘knowledge’ grows.

Welcome to a World of Expression

Filed Under: Blog, Reading Tagged With: active reading process, critical reading, increase your critical understaning of what you read, reading for meaning, Within Without and Below the story

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