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Teenagers are like baking a cake

July 16, 2010 By Nicole Feledy

Being a teenager rarely seems to be easy. One metaphor I like to use is that teenagers are like a cake baking. They enter the oven of adolescence as a sticky mass of mixed up ingredients. In the oven they experience heat and this pressure causes the component parts to gyrate wildly, molecules vibrate and collide with each other and the internal workings of the mixture seems to be a disorganised jumble of confusion. And yet, as time passes, the cake begins to take shape, it rises and sets and takes a recognisable form. It emerges from the oven bigger and brighter and more solid than when it went in.

Here we may also consider that the ease with which the cake rises, often relates directly to the preparation we, as adults gave.

Filed Under: Learning, Self Esteem Tagged With: being a teenager is not easy, is this mystory, mystory, nic feledy, teenagers are like baking a cake

Attitudes and Effective Leadership

July 13, 2010 By Nicole Feledy

What does it take to be a successful leader? Defining the essential features of effective leadership is not always simple. Often the characteristics which denote ‘successful’ leadership in one situation are not same as the qualities required in a different situation. Yet the development of effective leadership skills is important for both personal and interpersonal growth.

 At a personal level, developing an understanding of the skills required to ‘lead’ enhances your ability to achieve goals. Put simply, you lead yourself by setting yourself a goal and motivating yourself to attain that goal.

At an interpersonal level, developing an understanding of the skills required to ‘lead’, enhances your ability to interact with others. In other words if you are appointed to a leadership role you will understand the confidence, creativity and vision required to establish a common purpose and  the cooperation and communication skills required to work collaboratively with others to achieve a common purpose.

 Importantly, effective leaders lead by example and generally do more than they require of their followers. This is aptly illustrated in the scene from the movie Remember the Titans where Julius tells Gary “attitude reflects leadership”.

 

  1. Who do you consider to be an effective leader?
  2. Which of their leadership qualities do you admire most?

Filed Under: Self Esteem Tagged With: effective leaders, effective leadership, is this my story, mystory, nic feledy

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